In less than two weeks, I’m going to do something I’ve always dreamed about but never really believed was possible (in fact, it wouldn’t be possible if not for the loving support and financial contributions of my friends and family): I’m going to Japan.
An entire month in The Land of the Rising Sun, by myself, with an itinerary filled to the brim with things I want to do and see. As I prepare for this incredible adventure, I’m thinking of ways to allow myself to be changed by what I encounter. After all, isn’t that what travel is for – to discover new things, meet new people, experience different cultures and allow them to impact the way we see the world?
As such, I’m approaching the whole thing with a sacred heart. I’ve made a commitment to myself to fully experience each moment I’m there. Not to rush around, capturing Instagram-worthy photos (though there will be a little bit of that, I’m sure), but to take my time and savor the little discoveries I make along the way to each big temple or museum or kawaii coffee shop.
One of my favorite things about Japanese culture is the extreme attention to detail paid to everything from food to art to making sure the trains run on time. This is a culture of thoughtfulness and intentionality – qualities I’ve worked to develop in myself as an adult. It’s a culture with clear, visible ties to its social and cultural ancestry. Half of the stuff in Japan predates America by hundreds – if not thousands – of years! In Japan, data leaks happen on paper. Eating and drinking while walking down the street is considered rude. Politeness is a premium virtue. Self-control is essential. Public bathing is a thing, even while a general modesty is practiced by everyone. In a lot of ways, Japan feels like a contradiction of my own country’s habits and values. Which is probably why I find it so fascinating.
At any rate, the point is this: I’m going to have a lot of time for personal reflection in a remote place that takes me completely out of my comfort zone and challenges my preconceptions about it, whilst also challenging my own cultural habits. Will it be fun? I think so. More importantly, will it be an opportunity to learn and grow? I don’t see how it can be anything but.
I’m asking for your kind thoughts and wishes for safe travels as I set about on the adventure of a lifetime.
My hope is that I will return home with new perspectives, fresh inspiration and perhaps some new ways of being that can help me as I enter the next phase of my life.